tool Inner Circle
The Homework (Tool)
Yes, it's annoying. Yes, you're doing it anyway. One evening, one worksheet, every question about how you protect yourselves – and then it's settled for good.
Right. Homework.
I know. You came here for bulls and envy and that delicious sting, and now some Virgo with a red pen wants you to sit down and fill in a worksheet. About condoms. And test dates. And what happens if something comes back positive.
Yes, it's annoying. Yes, it's unsexy. And yes, you're doing it anyway.
Here's the deal: you do this once. One evening, the two of you, no bull in the room, a pen and the sheet below. You go through every question out loud – how you protect yourselves, with whom, what happens afterwards between the two of you, and who calls whom when the clinic rings. You don't skip the uncomfortable questions. Those are the whole point.
And then it's done. Signed, filed, in the calendar. The next time the fantasy gets loud, nobody has to stop and wonder what you agreed on. You already know. That's not the opposite of hot. That's what lets you stop thinking and enjoy it.
Download it. Print it. Do your homework. Remember, you like tasks. Right, cuck?
