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The other chair (Tool)

Spend one session as the hothusband. Five decisions, from the first message to the quiet afterward — and see the cost he pays for each one, in silence.

The other chair (Tool)

You've read all week about what he carries. Now sit in his chair.

The Other Chair puts you through one evening as the hothusband — five decisions, from the first message to the quiet afterward. You make the calls he usually makes. And after each one, you see the cost he usually pays in silence.

There's no score. No right answer. That's the point: every choice costs something, and there's no one to tell you if you paid the right price. Five minutes. Then you get up and go back to your own chair — seeing it differently.

And now sit down:

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