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So You're Sleeping With a Married Man - A Letter to the Other Guy

So You're Sleeping With a Married Man - A Letter to the Other Guy

Maybe you've been seeing a married man and the ground just shifted. Maybe a couple messaged you and you're not sure what they're asking. Either way — here's what's actually happening, from the man who's usually in the kitchen.

How to invite a guy on the Other Chair

How to invite a guy on the Other Chair

I sorted a hundred posts into shelves recently and found the gap: him. Well over a hundred pieces about us, and almost nothing about what the third man actually gets out of standing in the middle of somebody else's marriage. Two things I've never properly said — and, on Wednesday, something unusual.

Emotional Cuckolding: When He's No Longer Just the Bull (Deep Dive)

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Emotional Cuckolding: When He's No Longer Just the Bull (Deep Dive)

Not all feelings mean the same thing. There's affection, there's attachment – and then there's the one that sends everyone into crisis mode. None of them are automatically problems. The silence around them is.

The Bull Finder: A Guide for Hunting Unicorns (Tool)

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The Bull Finder: A Guide for Hunting Unicorns (Tool)

There's a shortage of good bulls." Dan Savage said it. We all felt it. Help is on the way with the "Bull-finding-workbook"

Deep Dive into the Bull's Eye: The Art of Finding Your Perfect Third

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Deep Dive into the Bull's Eye: The Art of Finding Your Perfect Third

Stop waiting for the perfect bull to fall from the sky. In this deep dive, we move past safety lists into the raw psychology of the 'Star.' Learn why the best bulls are made, not found, and how to trigger the desire that shakes your world. Are you ready to take the next step?

What it takes to find a Good Bull: The Human Factor

What it takes to find a Good Bull: The Human Factor

A bull who feels used leaves. A bull who feels seen comes back. This week: the most human part of the cuckolding triad — and how to find the right one.