What it takes to find a Good Bull: The Human Factor

Though my eyes – and, honestly, my dick – really appreciate the growing mass of gay cuckolding content on X and Bluesky, there's something I genuinely miss.

Do you remember when the biggest accounts were private couples who simply documented their journey together? No perfectly lit scenes, no staged performances, no ring lights behind the bed. Instead of "collaborations," we got low-resolution night shots, shaky hands videos from inside the closet, hidden takes from outside a window. And the guys – not perfect, not gym-built Adonises – but real men.

Don't get me wrong: I deeply appreciate the effort and craft that content creators pour into their work. I wish them every success – because we all know that money brings visibility, and visibility brings normalization. But for me, something is missing.

The human factor. The silly dog food ad playing on the TV in the background. The sounds of an old bed. The cat screaming for food next door. These details made the scene real – like, "they are actually doing this." And if you're a gay cuck, you know that nothing is more thrilling than "they are actually doing this."

This week, I want to look at the part of the cuckolding triad for which being human is absolutely critical: the bull.

Because for most couples – especially in the beginning – he's little more than an empty puppet, invited into their bedroom to fulfill a fantasy. And I can't blame them. In the early stages, most couples are fully occupied managing their own emotions and reactions. Who has the capacity to think about what a stranger might be feeling? He's getting laid – shouldn't that be enough?

Because a bull who feels used leaves. A bull who feels seen comes back. And more importantly: he performs differently. Not for the camera. For you.

This week we're deep diving into the bull's side of the equation:

• On Wednesday we'll dive deep: How and where to find a good bull — and what makes him the right one for you as a couple
• What red flags to watch for before he ever sets foot in your door
• And later this week: a step-by-step tool for presenting yourselves as a couple online — so the right bulls find you, and the wrong ones don't

Welcome to the most human part of this whole equation.

Let's find your bull. 🖤

P.S. Tomorrow, members will get a slightly longer email from me. I've been working on something behind the scenes that changes how you can access this content. Stay tuned. 🖤