Paid-members only tool Nothing For You (Tool) This week's tool isn't for you. It's a printable briefing for your husband — why denial works, and a menu of everything he might keep from you. You get to forward it. You don't get to read it.
Paid-members only denial Getting What You Want by Not Getting It: The Arousing Paradox of Being Denied Wanting to be denied is a contradiction in terms — get the thing you're denied, and the denial collapses. So why does the closed door, the cage, the withheld detail pull a cuck in deeper? On the strange erotics of not getting what you want.
