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denial
Nothing For You (Tool)
This week's tool isn't for you. It's a printable briefing for your husband — why denial works, and a menu of everything he might keep from you. You get to forward it. You don't get to read it.
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Getting What You Want by Not Getting It: The Arousing Paradox of Being Denied
Wanting to be denied is a contradiction in terms — get the thing you're denied, and the denial collapses. So why does the closed door, the cage, the withheld detail pull a cuck in deeper? On the strange erotics of not getting what you want.
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