The Magic Friend: Who To Tell about Your Cuckolding? (Deep Dive)

I have a very special friend.

Not someone I fuck with. But someone I can talk about fucking — a lot. We send each other porn memes. Dick pics we like. That kind of friend.

He doesn't know I'm a cuck.

Which is somehow weird. Because he's clearly into my husband. At one Pride event he even lifted his Scottish skirt — "by accident" — to show him his massive dick. That kind of friend.

But as I said. He doesn't know. And I'm pretty sure my husband wouldn't like it. Though he's clearly a fan of big dicks, he isn't into my friend. And we — yes, both of us — are sure things would get too complicated.

I guess.

Because a part of me wants to tell him. A part of me is tempted to send him a cuck porn meme next time. A part of me wants him to know that from my side, he'd have a free pass to hit on my husband.

Is it bad that I get a boner writing this?

And there we are. In the middle of a complicated but important topic.

The Double Outing

Here's the first thing that makes this different from coming out as gay.

When you out yourself as a cuck, you out two people. You and your husband. The kink always includes more than one person — and that means the decision to tell is never fully yours alone.

That's the string this dynamic carries everywhere. It's never just your secret. It's always shared property.

Which means the question who do we tell is actually two questions: who do I want to tell — and what does he need to protect?

Those two questions don't always have the same answer.

Why It's Such a Turn-On

But why is the idea of telling so intriguing in the first place? Why does writing about my friend and his Scottish skirt and his massive dick give me a boner?

Let's look at the cuck brain for a moment.

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