The Bull Finder: A Guide for Hunting Unicorns (Tool)
There's a shortage of good bulls." Dan Savage said it. We all felt it. Help is on the way with the "Bull-finding-workbook"
You've read the theory. Now it's time to do the work.
This week's Deep Dive was about finding – or making – your perfect bull. And if it resonated with you, chances are you also felt the familiar mix of excitement and overwhelm that comes with actually starting.
That's exactly why I made this.
The Hunting Unicorns Workbook is a guided couples exercise that takes you through four practical steps:
- how you present yourselves online,
- what red flags to watch for,
- what you're genuinely looking for beyond the fantasy –
- and how to have that first real conversation with a potential bull.
It's designed to be done together. Print it out, sit down, be honest with each other. Some questions will be easy. Some will surprise you.
That's the point.
→ Download the workbook, print it, and set aside an hour this weekend.
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